**if you are interested in participating in research for the Kinsey Institute click the link at the end of the post.**
I have had a lot of conversations about sex recently (thank you all). Well more of the “self pleasing” aspect *coughs* and the self control men seem to lose when they get an erection. I haven’t talked to many people about this topic but I am determined to ask every male I am cool with questions about this subject.Men really do seem to have NO control over their penis. SMH. It’s almost like succumbing to their sexual desires is like taking that next shot of heroin. No seriously this is how I honestly feel about the male libido. It’s like a drug. I wonder if women have hard time controlling there sexual urges. But like a friend of mine said there are factors which make some women think twice about falling into lustful situations (integrity, society, reputation, emotions etc)
When I really sat down and thought about why people do what they do (I am a psychology major at heart) I really felt this passion and urge I had felt some years ago. Should I take a second look at doing some research? I would love to get my foot in the door. SN: However I still want to do social work for the elderly AND with a new focus on the LGBT community too :).
I wanted to go to Indiana University after I saw the Alfred Kinsey movie (google him and visit this website www.kinseyinstitute.orgl) that came out about 3 years ago. If you like sex AND research you will be interested. Anyways I have always went back and forth…would I get a graduate degree/training/education in human sexuality. In all honesty I am a modest woman and I think I am traditional (especially in today’s society) on the topic of sex.
Unlike some of you serial masturbators I am interested in the statistics, the trend, emotions, the thought process behind the act it self instead of the pleasureful lustful feeling. I suppose I am more interested in the logical reason reasoning instead of the animalistic flesh driven aspect. I cant explain why. YES I KNOW SEX IS A BASIC INSTINCT. I get that argument, now tell me something I HAVE NOT HEARD BEFORE. I myself, have a hard time understanding a lot of things when it comes to sexual nature and what better way to understand it is to do research, surveys, collecting data, interviews etc. What is normal, what is abnormal? Why is it that way? Why isn’t it unacceptable? There has been an increase and decrease in what type of sexual attitudes? I could go on and on.
If i did go my focus would HAVE to be on what men are thinking, what do they want, is sex valuable or disposable to some?
Anyways you all should help out the Kinsey Institute and participate in some research. Who doesn’t like answering questions about sex. Click the link below and do a survey. I am :)
For some reason I believe that if one gets into a relationship within a few weeks to ONE month (i changed it) after getting out of another one..the person HAD to be talking to someone else while in the previous relationship. Maybe that’s just from experience and observing others.However I COULD BE WRONG. I acknowledge that but you know this is MY blog. MY opinion. Let’s not forget.
My FB status says: ” if your ex gets a girlfriend/boyfriend at least 2 months after yall break up he was cheatin’ or “talkin” to him/her behind your back. Point. Blank. Period.”
A response from a friend : “I think people move TOO fast into relationships, so I believe to move from one relationship to another that quickly is suspect. Either you 1. weren’t as committed and involved in the previous relationship, 2. are being hasty with the next-…-how can you commit to someone you don’t really know? Can you REALLY get to know someone in a month’s time?!, or 3. Your idea of relationship is flawed, which is why there is such a quick turn around. Like I said earlier this week, “everybody wants to be a lover, but nobody wants to be a friend. Learn how to be a friend first.” People are failing that step in relationships and then wonder why the relationship doesn’t last long or you’re unhappy in it. I guess if you’re taking shortcuts to build relationships you can move on to the next one easily because the relationship was microwaved-cooked instead of slow-cooked. We neglect to value TIME (everybody’s in a rush) and it’s ability to protect us from 4 boy-/girlfriends in a 3 year span. …I don’t get how people do it. I really do think such behavior is a result of insecurity; having a desire to feel a void.”
I need to write more often. I will try and work on that for you all (those that pay attention). I normally write when I am emotionally full (you know pissed, irritated, extremely grieved) but I haven’t felt heavy in a long time and that’s a GREAT THING. Anyways… my life really isn’t that exciting so I’m gonna remember to lie and stretch the truth. Ok, I lied I will tell the truth. Wait. What? That was the point. Right? Nevermind. In addition to writing I will try and put news articles up here too. You know, give my blog a bit of well “roundedness” and shit. Eh.
I wanna start a youtube channel, however I know this fad or phenomenon is a little dated. I communicate better through writing anyway. Also editing is faster when you write. I know nothing about movie maker. Not to mention I hate my teeth. They’re crooked. I will save my embarrassment I don’t want dozens or people staring at my crowded grill. Eh. Physical flaws. I want braces. Then I’d be WINNING! I like my lips tho. Oh, I need to stop ranting.
Oh I moved this weekend. I finally live alone and have my own space. It’s weird. I’m growing up. Wow. I have much to do in the next week. I can’t wait to have guests. I’m not too happy with the apartment because it’s old. But it’s mine. :) Now I gotta steal some wireless. Huh? I didn’t say that. Borrow is what I meant. Keep the passwords off your wireless. Please and thanks. Ok. I won’t do that, but I want to. >_< Ok I’m done ranting foreal.
you eat, you're fat. you don't eat, you're a freak. you drink, you're an alcoholic. you don't drink, you're a pussy. you read, you're a nerd. you don't read, you're stupid. you tell a secret, you're an attention seeker. you don't tell a secret, you're still attention seeking. you let someone in, you're easy. you don't let someone in, you're too uptight. you smoke, you think you're cool. you don't smoke, you're a loser. you've had sex, you're a slut. you haven't had sex, you're a frigid little bitch. you wear make up, you're a slag. you don't wear make up, you're ugly. you can't please anyone. ever.